burnout… Work is a four-letter word! 16 Mar 202216 Mar 2022 “Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And…
feminism… My glass slipper that doesn’t fit anymore! 30 Jan 202127 Feb 2021 A friend and I recently were discussing how many stories written by modern women are continued fantastical versions of a real story. How they continue to endorse the need for…
covid… Through the looking glass of life and illness, I watched humanity carry me through a pandemic! 17 Dec 202017 Dec 2020 Sometimes the narrative changes. It completely flips. The whole reality of reality goes up in a wisp of smoke and all that's left is a skeleton of experiences, lived and…
covid… 20 things that we should not say after 2020 24 Oct 202030 Oct 2020 1. Dark skinned women are beautiful: from a dark skinned woman to my light skinned sisters, please stop with these patronizing comments. I'm comfortable in my skin without your benevolent…
autism… 2020 as how (may be) my nonverbal autistic sees it….. 25 Sep 20209 Oct 2020 Everything I love is soft and silent, My cat, the morning, the end of day, Even the moon in its way Everything I love is soft and silent, The water,…
burnout… As I waited at the station, Patriarchy said, “It’s your problem”. 19 Aug 202019 Aug 2020 Some online and real life conversations provide so much substrate for this blog that I'm indebted to all the people who engage with me and exchange ideas. They give me…
autism… The three states of matter on social media! 7 Aug 202012 Aug 2020 Social media swallowed me whole, chewed me up and spat me out in the last eight months of COVID. I have met more brainless google doctors than I had anticipated…
covid… 2020….. my reflections on a hallmark half a year so far 25 Jul 20207 Aug 2020 https://www.instagram.com/p/B6wSpkklmbJ/?igshid=fb58pukfptjy The above is my post from December 2019 on my Instagram. We had just come back about three weeks before this from a fantastic vacation in New Orleans and…
marriage… You can cheat… but away from me! 24 Apr 202024 Apr 2020 Chapter 1: She looked at the text messages, confronted him and he accepted everything. She contemplated for a few weeks and then decided to stay. What did she have to…
covid… COVID-19 and the trash bags on nurses as personal protective equipment! 10 Apr 2020 I watched the nurse who was in charge of my patient with COVID. She went in and out of the room as little as she could so as to limit…
My mind as a woman 