consumerism… Silent feminists! 23 Dec 202123 Dec 2021 I’m at a convention for engineers. These are all Pakistani women. With their nice Chanel and Hermes bags. They look wealthy. Age is defied by them. When you have money,…
burnout… “Who’s your daddy?” Brown women who look for men who are not like their fathers. 8 Nov 20219 Nov 2021 As I tucked my kids in and turned to leave the room I saw my husband standing in the doorway. He had a serenely weird smile on his face, something…
feminism… Trophy wife….. what’s not to love about it? 26 Sep 202127 Sep 2021 Of many patriarchal slurs that women put up with, Trophy Wife is another. It’s not only shameful to the woman who is branded with it but it’s also derogatory to…
burnout… “Are you happy?” 21 Oct 202019 Feb 2021 I cruised through I-81 trying to reach my mother as fast as I could. The fact that she chooses to live in the suburbs of Philadelphia is inconvenient but she's…
feminism… The aluminum foil and other popular themes of her marriage! 31 Aug 20206 Sep 2020 The aluminum foil: Curse be on me that I wasn't taught the basic art of cooking by my mother. I land in my marriage unarmed and without any back up…
burnout… As I waited at the station, Patriarchy said, “It’s your problem”. 19 Aug 202019 Aug 2020 Some online and real life conversations provide so much substrate for this blog that I'm indebted to all the people who engage with me and exchange ideas. They give me…
feminism… Ten Dicks and a Tom! 30 Jul 20208 Aug 2020 Ladies! Single life is not for people like me. Self-conscious, judgmental, opinionated, introverted, hyper imaginative and hypo perceptive. This life isn't for people like me. But by life's grace my…
feminism… Working moms have it different, not easy. 24 Jul 202025 Jul 2020 So true story! I'm a feminist. Which means I champion all women. Yes, even the misogynists because even those women haven't had it easy. They've had it just as tough…
humanity… Hyperactive or just a millennial? 3 Jul 20203 Jul 2020 As I watched dinner that was slowly simmering on the stove while watching Vanderpump Rules while my kid did her homework sitting next to me while my toddler occasionally brought…
burnout… “I’m a superwoman”. The subconscious hate for being human. 19 Apr 202019 Apr 2020 So much on this blog is about women that it's not only repetitive, it is also tiring. But bear with me! When I was growing up, my dad was building…
My mind as a woman 